Now that the children are in school and the holidays are around the corner, it is vital to remind them about "Stranger Danger" and how to be safe from strangers. Often times, children forget as they become more comfortable and confident in their environment and routine. Parents and guardians have to constantly remind their children about strangers.

When teaching or talking to children about strangers, do not allow them to become over fearful or paranoid. The point is not to make them afraid of life, but to be aware of their surroundings and environment, so that they may enjoy life to its fullest.

Children need to be taught there are two types of strangers-good and bad ones. The good strangers include school teachers (other than their own), police officers, firefighters, mail carriers, just to name a few. These are people we personally may not know, but know that their services help the local community. Use judgment in what qualifies as good strangers. Explain to your children that they may talk to these good strangers if they need help or that mom or dad says it is ok.

Your children should know that they are not to ever leave with a stranger anywhere. Explain to your children that if they don't know who that stranger is, it is best to stay away from that person. If a stranger asks them to come in the vehicle with them, tell your children to run away and scream for help. Tell your children under no circumstances they are allowed to take candy or some other item from strangers. Bad strangers may be anyone who is not a local community helper.

Now that Halloween is around the corner, you and your children may be preparing to go Trick-or-Treating or giving treats. Be sure to set rules and expectations for your children. Explain to them that Trick-or-Treating or giving treats to trick-or-treaters is a privilege, not a right. They should stick within your sight and not open any treats until you or your spouse inspected them.

Before going Trick-or-Treating, have an emergency plan just in case one of your children separates from you during that time. Your child or children should be able to meet you or go to someone they trust for safety. Remind them not to go with strangers even if they seem nice. This would be a good time to review about stranger safety.

Strangers are also found online-in cyberspace. Many have been caught by law enforcement authorities for trying to meet with young children. Monitor your children's computer activities. If you need to, go ahead and use parental controls. Explain to your children, that people hide behind computer screens, so it is easy to play different roles. Supervise computer time until your children are able to avoid meeting strangers online.

Be creative when talking to your children about strangers. You could find lesson plans online or in your local library. Plan a trip to the police station, if possible. Quiz your children after finishing your lecture on strangers. Be sure that they fully understand the safety rules and consequences of strangers. Encourage your children to always speak with you or your spouse.